fcc56 I see your post and it is fine man. Anyone can post here to help anyone and any suggestion if fine as well. Just so you know.
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Ok Man, for starters just so you know 1066MHz ram is REALLY 800MHz ram just tested to run stable at 1066 at the specified timings and oltages. You must manually set the the timings and voltages to the specified amounts
You ram, by the numbers you posted is a 2x1GB kit and in your images I see each Stick is only 1gb. So you either ordered the wrong ram or they sent you the wrong ram, but that is a 2x1GB kit >>>
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If you want your ram to run at 1066 you are going to need to post to me your settings you are using. These are for P35 so you will have to likely add a bit in. Post back your settings And I will make some suggestions to you >>>
This is Just a template I use to ask people there settings, pay no attention to the numbers in it, replace with yours
Robust Graphics Booster___________ [Auto]
CPU Clock Ratio ____________ [8]
CPU Host Clock Control_ [Enabled]
CPU Host Frequency (MHz)__________ [450]
PCI Express Frequency (Mhz)_______ [100]
C.I.A. 2__________________________ [Disabled]
System Memory Multiplier (SPD)____ [2.00]
DRAM Timing Selectable_______ SPD __ [Manual]
Performance Enhance = [Standard]
CAS Latency Time________________ ?
Dram RAS# to CAS# Delay_________ ?
Dram RAS# Precharge Delay_______?
Precharge Delay (tRAS)__________ ?
ACT to ACT Delay (tRRD)_________ ?
Rank Write to READ Delay________ ?
Write to Precharge Delay_________ ?
Refresh to ACT Delay______________ ?
Read to Precharge Delay__________ ?
Static tRead Value_______________ 1-31
Static tRead Phase Adjust________ 1-31
System Voltage Control____ [Manual]
DDR2 OverVoltage Control__ [+0.300V]
PCI-E OverVoltage Control_ [+0.1V]
FSB OverVoltage Control___ [+0.1V]
(G)MCH OverVoltage Control [+0.1V]
CPU Voltage Control_______ [1.25]
And yes, as said above you will need to disable a few things that run speedstep if you want your CPU to always run at 3Ghz, those would be EIST, and C1E