If you are gonna install any marvel drive this is the only thing that you need to install. http://www.fileden.com/files/2009/12...0.1019whql.zip
I dont know what you mean by "then use device manager to update the software for it use"
From start to scratch this is all you should have to do.
Install SSD to white marvel sata3 connector.
Install hdd,DVD to black sata2 connectors.
Boot into bios and enable ACHI for both controllers.
Boot off window windows cd format and install windows to the SSD.
Once windows is installed install the following (order should not matter to much)
1. Install chip set drivers.
2. install lan drivers
3. install usb3 drivers
4. install video card drivers
5. install IRST drivers
6. Install Marvel drivers (Not needed)
That should be it then you just need to configure windows so you are not writing to the SSD as much and wear it out.